mom to mom with valerie

mom to mom with valerie

Meet Valerie Metz. 

A California beachside based content creator, lifestyle photographer, wife to Zach, and mama to her two kids Hendrix (3) and Rio (9months). I sat down with her (virtually) to hear her authentic truth, her story, her advice, her love. We hope that this conversation either guides you before becoming a mom or inspires you as a mom to know that you aren’t alone. #MomToMom

Q: Please introduce yourself, where you're from, and what you do.
Hi! My name is valerie metz. I live beachside in Costa Mesa, CA and i'm a lifestyle photographer and content creator.

Q: I am inspired by you and your hubby's love and your beautiful family. What's your story?
Thanks so much! My husband and I met when I was 18 and got engaged after FOUR months of dating! We got married really young and waited a few years before we (unexpectedly) added kids to our family. We now have two sweet babes and are in the process of fostering!

Q: What's your birth story? Was it easier with one kid than the other? Seamless all around? Any tips or thoughts you can share?
I had both kids in an amazing hospital with midwives. Both experiences went well- my first one was long and had a few hiccups and scares because it was taking so long to get him out but all went well. My second one was way easier and quicker, I think because my body already knew what it was doing. The best tip I could offer is to listen to your body! I had planned to go as natural as I could. The pain level with contractions was tolerable but I had NO idea I would feel so nauseous and be covered in chills. I was shaking uncontrollably and couldn't get my anxiety down so I ended up getting epidurals both times which calmed my mind and body down.

Q: How old were you when you had Hendrix? And how has the transition been seeing him as an older brother and now seeing yourself as a mommy of two?
I was 24 when I first became a mom! The transition has been really sweet. Hendrix has adjusted amazingly and loves his baby sis so well. He does crave one on one attention and acts naughty to me to get that attention so instead of getting bothered by his behavior, I prioritize quality time with him which always helps!


Q: What's been the most challenging parts of motherhood and the most rewarding parts?
The most challenging part of motherhood for me personally, has been the pressure it comes with. I sometimes romanticize what it would be like to raise kids 2 decades ago before social media. I have to be extra careful with what I allow myself to feel affected by because everyone's opinions will make me anxious and feel like I'm not doing enough. However, it is pretty amazing to have current research on parenting styles and effective discipline. The best parts have been watching my and my husbands personalities in tiny humans develop and it’s also been VERY healing for me to raise kids. There are some parts of my childhood that were rough and being able to learn and grow from those experiences has been redeeming.


Q: Do you feel like motherhood has transformed you in any way?
Yes its taught me (and currently still teaching me) what sacrifice is! I feel like i'm constantly learning to put my selfish and unhealthy aside and be the best version of myself for my family.

Q: What have you learned from your two lil's?
They've taught me to love endlessly!!! Even on bad days, I need to pull myself together and keep loving their pure and innocent souls. such good practice to love on others!

Q: Do you have a specific story or experience you want to share that either challenged you, uplifted you, was a beautiful moment –– anything.
I can’t recall a specific story but everyday is an adventure! (even on hard days) the most life giving moments are when we spend hours at the beach in the sunshine with the waves. our babes love playing there and we are just our happiest there!

Q: Do you have any advice for moms to be, current mamas, or women in general?
The best advice is to ASK FOR HELP! practice and normalize asking for extra hands! It's humbling for our kids to witness that and we take care of ourselves that way. Also listen to your body and your gut- only we know what's best for our families, we are all different!

Q: How do you take care of YOU? Do you have a routine that keeps you grounded?
Oh yes I do! I wake up (almost every morning) before the kids and sacrifice the extra hour of sleep for alone time. I do yoga, sip on some coffee, read, etc. I feel like I can start the day off better that way. My husband is also really good about pushing me to get alone time! I instantly feel refreshed after getting some alone time in or quality time with a close friend! 


you can follow along to see what val is up to on ig @mammafolk

We are going to continue posting more of these authentic stories, so like, comment, and share to your friends! If you know someone that you think would be a good fit for these interviews, please reach out to us at hello@allthebabies.co so we can tell their story and keep creating a #MomToMomMovement. 

all the babies.
all the love.
all the time.

 

 

Back to blog

11727 comments

https://www.facebook.com/events/1225264431802098
https://www.facebook.com/events/1183588256225550
https://www.facebook.com/events/499126965812516
https://www.facebook.com/events/1931281480625786
https://www.facebook.com/events/1026791218996397
https://www.facebook.com/events/7956353691150644
https://www.facebook.com/events/828544656045507
https://www.facebook.com/events/1579014819343667
https://www.facebook.com/events/347283778417174
https://www.facebook.com/events/1534001077154717
https://www.facebook.com/events/1912976229155793
https://www.facebook.com/events/390731320223525
https://www.facebook.com/events/458359147005012
https://www.facebook.com/events/240645025810081
https://www.facebook.com/events/492412756649361
https://www.facebook.com/events/473315105638622
https://www.facebook.com/events/1004472117852226
https://www.facebook.com/events/280596548444764
https://www.facebook.com/events/3683266381922750
https://www.facebook.com/events/1022863985841859
https://www.facebook.com/events/402336868942125
https://www.facebook.com/events/1612721646186532
https://www.facebook.com/events/763542125711429
https://www.facebook.com/events/3606145506364065
https://www.facebook.com/events/845255163771405
https://www.facebook.com/events/1686512101887353
https://www.facebook.com/events/1126117695114070
https://www.facebook.com/events/916822050206281
https://www.facebook.com/events/720274116854839
https://www.facebook.com/events/8109609879099068
https://www.facebook.com/events/469440089036406
https://www.facebook.com/events/494912009735521
https://www.facebook.com/events/1023659805772653
https://www.facebook.com/events/1038758370975433
https://www.facebook.com/events/857684025784162
https://www.facebook.com/events/1194567321733468
https://www.facebook.com/events/1980520935740316
https://www.facebook.com/events/517789590586245
https://www.facebook.com/events/828790519189368
https://www.facebook.com/events/802080108786368
https://www.facebook.com/events/952093866669637
https://www.facebook.com/events/1831479560713775
https://www.facebook.com/events/1217195009695497
https://www.facebook.com/events/1969319180168209
https://www.facebook.com/events/1158066738850499
https://www.facebook.com/events/454529800728193
https://www.facebook.com/events/1008457283765233
https://www.facebook.com/events/1143903036897169
https://www.facebook.com/events/392659643339078
https://www.facebook.com/events/990853502491735
https://www.facebook.com/events/461414810165286
https://www.facebook.com/events/839566781446704
https://www.facebook.com/events/826728592742284
https://www.facebook.com/events/1921215201656057
https://www.facebook.com/events/1020060039528775

afcasfvsadvdfgdfgdfgdf

https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094514652429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094515390429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094515558429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094515996429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094516272429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094516548429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094516866429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094519710429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094520058429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094520250429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094520772429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094521780429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094522644429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094522962429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094523784429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094524132429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094524726429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094525074429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094525770429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094526160429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094526814429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094526964429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094528128429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094528224429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094528326429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094528536429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094528812429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094530672429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094531236429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094531782429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094531920429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094533012429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094533756429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094534920429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094535532429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094537716429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094538322429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094539570429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094540176429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094540728429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094541034429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094542096429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094542414429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094543026429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094543200429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094543620429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094544586429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094545270429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094545474429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094545552429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094545654429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094546008429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094546230429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094546914429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094547004429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094547100429953
https://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.122094548768429953

yyyuyju

https://consumer.huawei.com/it/community/details/topicId_125593/
https://consumer.huawei.com/it/community/details/topicId_125592/
https://consumer.huawei.com/it/community/details/topicId_125594/
https://consumer.huawei.com/it/community/details/topicId_125595/
https://consumer.huawei.com/it/community/details/topicId_125596/
https://github.com/ACOING/INSIDEOUT2-KOREAN-HD-GIT-2024/blob/main/README.md
https://github.com/ACOING/INSIDEOUT2-KOREAN-HD-GIT-2024/tree/main
https://github.com/ACOING/INSIDEOUT2-KOREAN-HD-GIT-2024
https://github.com/ACIBONK/-KOREAN-HD-INSIDEOUT2-2024-1080k/blob/main/README.md
https://github.com/ACIBONK/-KOREAN-HD-INSIDEOUT2-2024-1080k/tree/main
https://github.com/ACIBONK/-KOREAN-HD-INSIDEOUT2-2024-1080k
https://github.com/ACIBONK1/-2-2024-INSIDEOUT2/blob/main/README.md
https://github.com/ACIBONK1/-2-2024-INSIDEOUT2/tree/main
https://github.com/ACIBONK1/-2-2024-INSIDEOUT2
https://github.com/ACIBONK2/-2-2024-KOREAN-HD—INSIDEOUT2-GIT/blob/main/README.md
https://github.com/ACIBONK2/-2-2024-KOREAN-HD—INSIDEOUT2-GIT/tree/main
https://github.com/ACIBONK2/-2-2024-KOREAN-HD—INSIDEOUT2-GIT
https://github.com/ACIBONK3/-2-2024-KOREAN-HD—INSIDEOUT-2-BLU-RAY/blob/main/README.md
https://github.com/ACIBONK3/-2-2024-KOREAN-HD—INSIDEOUT-2-BLU-RAY/tree/main
https://github.com/ACIBONK3/-2-2024-KOREAN-HD—INSIDEOUT-2-BLU-RAY
https://github.com/ACIBONK4/-2-2024—INSIDEOUT2-HD/blob/main/README.md
https://github.com/ACIBONK4/-2-2024—INSIDEOUT2-HD/tree/main
https://github.com/ACIBONK4/-2-2024—INSIDEOUT2-HD

hhui

https://www.artstation.com/twisters-2024-filme-completo-dublado/profile

https://www.artstation.com/twisters-2024-filme-completo-dublado/profile

https://www.artstation.com/house-of-the-dragon-season-2-episode-5-2024-movie-hd-eng/profile
https://www.artstation.com/watch-house-of-the-dragon-season-2-episode-5/profile
https://www.artstation.com/download-house-of-the-dragon-season-2-episode-5-uhd-4k/profile
https://www.artstation.com/house-of-the-dragon-season-2-episode-5-movie-download-link/profile
https://www.artstation.com/download-movie-house-of-the-dragon-season-2-episode/profile
https://www.artstation.com/house-of-the-dragon-season-2-episode5-2024-streaming-full-movie/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-le-film-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streaming-fr/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-film-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streaming-fr/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streaming-vf-fr/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streamingvf/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streaming-vostfr/profile
https://www.artstation.com/un-ptit-truc-en-plus-film-streaming-vf-hd/profile
https://www.artstation.com/films-voir-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streamingvf-complet-en-francais/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-streamingvf-vostfr-complet/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-le-film-un-ptit-truc-en-plus-2024-streaming-vf/profile
https://www.artstation.com/deadpool-wolverine-2024-web-dl/profile
https://www.artstation.com/cb01-deadpool-wolverine-streaming-italiano/profile
https://www.artstation.com/guarda-deadpool-wolverine-2024-streaming-italiano-cb01/profile
https://www.artstation.com/deadpool-wolverine-streamingalta-ita-2024/profile
https://www.artstation.com/fly-me-to-the-moon-le-due-facce-della-luna-2024-web-dl/profile
https://www.artstation.com/cb01-le-due-facce-della-luna-streaming-italiano/profile
https://www.artstation.com/kakuda-ibomma-telugu-movies/profile
https://www.artstation.com/le-due-facce-della-luna-streamingalta-ita-2024/profile
https://www.artstation.com/le-due-facce-della-luna-streaming-film-senzalimiti-2024/profile
https://www.artstation.com/watch-kakuda-full-movie-download-hd-0k/profile
https://www.artstation.com/kakuda-torrent-full-movie/profile
https://www.artstation.com/kakuda-2024-fullmovie-download-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/kakuda-free-download-fullmovies/profile
https://www.artstation.com/kakuda-fullmovie-download-free-hd7/profile
https://www.artstation.com/kakuda-2024-fullmovie-online-download-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/downloading-init-2024-fullmovie/profile
https://www.artstation.com/init-2024-fullmovie-download-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/watch-init-full-movie-online-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/init-free-download-fullmovies/profile
https://www.artstation.com/download-a-quiet-place-day-one-2024-fullmovie/profile
https://www.artstation.com/a-quiet-place-day-one-free-download-fullmovies/profile
https://www.artstation.com/watch-a-quiet-place-day-one-fullmovie-online-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/a-quiet-place-day-one-2024-fullmovie-download-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/a-quiet-place-day-one-fullmovie-qhd-4k/profile
https://www.artstation.com/watch-blue-lock-episode-nagi-full-movie-online-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/blue-lock-episode-nagi-free-download-fullmovies/profile
https://www.artstation.com/blue-lock-episode-nagi-2024-fullmovie-download-free/profile
https://www.artstation.com/downloading-blue-lock-episode-nagi-2024-fullmovie/profile
https://www.artstation.com/voir-film-blue-lock-le-film-episode-nagi-streaming-fr/profile
https://pastebin.com/1tRKmvgi
https://bitbin.it/3zKYItkc/
https://pastelink.net/st2fcnm0
http://paste.jp/6d9c0f33/
https://yamcode.com/dfhsdyterytsertesrt
https://paiza.io/projects/ODsL4JnoUmJOW3oIPYeNxw?language=php
https://www.wowace.com/paste/5d52f93b
https://dev.bukkit.org/paste/71bfb1c3
https://wokwi.com/projects/403518370385889281
https://b.cari.com.my/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=5364331&extra=
https://xtremepape.rs/threads/sdgdfsgegertgertg.117844/
https://matters.town/a/dma3w6gt58wj?utm_source=share_copy&referral=bebedada146
https://lifeisfeudal.com/Discussions/question/dgsedrgsertesrtewrtewst
https://paste.gd/5YXOT0a0
https://profile.hatena.ne.jp/WatchMovie2024/profile
https://www.etextpad.com/kqpl8kbhqx
https://forum.ripper.store/post-queue/topic-1721083691777
https://forums.fogproject.org/topic/17562/sdgsdgfesffasefase
https://forum.potok.digital/topic/2970/dfgsdrytreytreytset
https://foro.ribbon.es/topic/9875/sxdgsfdgzetgett
https://hackmd.io/@X4eQTRbpRzqXlJw_GRQdcQ/H1tGfQmO0
https://community.thoracic.org/articles/sxdgsdgasezgefge
https://cofradesdegranada.ideal.es/articles/sewzrtewrtrewartwer
https://community.goldencorral.com/articles/dfgsdtgerterterte
https://demo.hedgedoc.org/s/a73Ts6_Y0
https://forum.instube.com/d/106824-fghjdfutrtryredyr
https://forum.freeflarum.com/d/88380-dffgesdhyeryersytest
https://wandering.flarum.cloud/d/80793-dfgsdtgetewtewastrwertwe
https://herbalmeds-forum.biolife.com.my/d/99490-fghsdxgdftgesrter
https://www.planetminecraft.com/forums/bedrock/discussion/dfhxghrehyrestetert-686850/
https://www.onlinegdb.com/fork/BIcDYjRaD
https://www.penana.com/story/159457/fgghdgfhytryd/issue/1

dfgsgergreytgrest

Leave a comment

Your comment was posted successfully! Thank you!